Friday, December 31, 2010
Thursday, December 30, 2010
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
Anyhoo, the boys were spoiled silly with so much attention and had a great time (except that Ben decided to cut his bottom molars and not sleep AT ALL while we were there)
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
Monday, December 27, 2010
Sunday, December 26, 2010
Spence and I went to Ikea the week before Christmas. We were in awe of that place, but were really good about getting exactly what we went for and nothing else. But boy did we look (our eyes are set on this sofa next). We set up the bed and Zeke slept it it for the first night on Christmas Eve. He did fall out of it once, but went right back to sleep when I crawled in with him. We also did a total rearrange of his room and are loving the set up. He is so proud of his "big boy bed that dada built with logs". We know this because we overheard him telling Doc Hudson when he was supposed to be napping ;)
Saturday, December 25, 2010
Friday, December 24, 2010
I hope that you glanced over at the blogs I posted yesterday. I know that there are as many opinions on this as there are people with belly buttons. I am not here to tell you what to do for your family and I am not telling you that what we have chosen is the "right" answer. Spencer and I just feel that the decision we have made is the right one for our family for right now.
Last year I posted about deciding what we are going to do here. Well, this year we have made that decision. We basically decided to emphasize Jesus and deemphasize(I may have made that word up) Santa. Does this mean that our kids are going to run around and tell all the other children that their parents are lying to them? Does this mean that we hate using our imaginations? Does this mean that our kids are going to not get presents? The answer is no, to all of the above. Our kids won't ruin it for your family, so you can still let them play together. We are constantly fostering their creativity and provide tons of ways for imaginary play through out our day, if you have been around this blog for any amount of time you know this. Our kids will still most certainly get spoiled silly by presents.
Here is an attempt at some questions you may be having:
Spence and Courtney, did you grow up with parents who hated Santa or hated Christmas?
Not at all. We both grew up having Santa, and both have fond memories. We do not feel any anger at our parents for "lying" to us about it or anything like that. We just know that there is a lot in this world that competes with Jesus everyday. We want to be sure that on this day especially that our children are not faced with that competition. We want our children to have a full grasp on why we celebrate this day and it just doesn't have anything to do with a fat man sneaking into your house.
Also, if all the excitement of Christmas is wrapped up in a box, or left out as Santa did at our house growing up, then we are greatly missing the point. I would rather celebrate with out presents than have my kids miss this point. Christmas is about celebrating the birth of our Savior. The Creator of the world came down in the form of a helpless baby in order to live a perfect life and die for us so that we could one day be fully united with God in heaven. OK, did you get that?
The giving and recieving of gifts at Christmas is a symbol. Like any other symbol it should point us to what it represents. In the same way that communion is a symbol of Christ, so gift giving should symbolize the gift we were given in Christ. The reason people give presents at Christmas is as a celebration of Christ's birth.
So, are you not gonna ever lie to your kids ever?
We aren't planning to intentionally lie to our kids but, we are not hung up on the whole we don't want to lie to our children reasoning because we know that happens quite often with out us even thinking about it. Examples of those each day would be "we don't have any cookies, eat your veggies", "the tv is broken, you can't watch a movie", "everyone naps, so it is naptime", "this is juice"- when it's really water with a splash of juice. We are more worried about this lie because it replaces Jesus with something else. (I am not encouraging any lying, I know it is a sin, but I am also human and know my faults and I am just being real with you)
What about fairy tales, video games, etc.?
We will share fairy tales, video games, and fictional stories with our children. The difference is that we aren't going to ask them to believe that Harry Potter can make a broomstick fly, or that there is a dinosaur named Yoshi who helps Mario battle Bowser. My kids watch Nemo and Cars, but we aren't going to teach them that there are really talking fish or talking cars out there. We do not have a problem with fantasy or make believe. We do have a problem with willfully tricking our kids into thinking something is real when it isn't.
Are you going to avoid all Santa talk?
Absolutely not! We will tell Zeke and Ben that there once was a man who did wonderful generous things. We will tell them that people still like to dress up and pretend to be him. This is like when kids dress up like a fireman or princess though. It does not make them those things, it's just play. We will point him out at the mall. They have jammies that have him on them (Zeke thinks they are snowmen even though we have told him they aren't). Zeke LOVES wearing our Santa hat. We aren't going to try to keep them in a bubble. But really people, if your kids are finding out about sex in kindergarten do you really think they aren't finding out the truth about Santa?
Alright, so have I ruffled enough feathers for one day? How many of you have decided never to return? Who just stumbled here today wanting a cute pic and is a little perturbed there aren't any? Come back tomorrow for some cute pictures and a more feel good topic :)
Thursday, December 23, 2010
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Generally during small group discussion time, all the kids go upstairs with 2 of our members. The adults rotate who watches kids so that everyone has a turn. This week because it was just my kids and because we were hanging out, we let the boys stay with us. But Ben couldn't hang once it got too close to bedtime, so I put him down. Zeke on the other hand thrived on being the only kid around. While we were taking prayer requests and praying, Zeke was sitting with me. I told him what we were doing in hopes that he would sit quietly. Instead, he jumped up and pointed to the people on the couch yelling "Let's pray guys! It's good for you!" in almost thug-like way. The following video is what Zeke made everyone do after we had our snowball fight. As you can see, he L.O.V.E.S being the center of attention!
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
Can I say how much Spence and I love and believe in small groups? This is how our church does adult disciopleship. We meet weekly in our home with about 14 other adults and a handful of kids. We study the Bible, we pray, we eat, we live life, and we have fun.
This week at group, we decided to have a Christmas party. Ya'll know how much we like Minute to Win It, so Spence and I set up our party to spread the love a little bit. We played boys versus girls, and I hate to say that the boys won. The girls only had 4 teammates though, so we will use that as our excuse ;) We played Deer Nose Dive (trying to stick a pom pom to your vaseline covered nose), Face the Cookie (getting a cookie from your forehead to your mouth only using your face muscles), Christmas Bite (getting five bags to different spots of the house using only your mouth to pick them up, carry them, and put them down), and last was Snowball Fight (using computer paper, create snowballs and throw them onto the opponents side, whoever has the least on their side at the time, wins). Here is a video of one of our snowball fights. Check back tomorrow for what Zeke did during the party.
Monday, December 20, 2010
Friday, December 17, 2010
Thursday, December 16, 2010
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
Friday, December 10, 2010
Anyway, the boys had fun running around a tree lot that was in a gas station parking lot on Glenwood. They have also enjoyed the decorations and being able to play with their very own nativity. They have actually gotten a little creative with that, but you will see that below
Zeke loved the "Zeke size trees"
Tuesday, December 7, 2010
We are currently praying about whether we need to move forward with the MRI or not. With it being scheduled for a week away, we have to make the decision quickly. Please pray for God to give us wisdom and discernment in this. We really don't want to put Ben through any unnecessary testing, but we also don't want to skip something and miss something that could be potentially harmful for our sweet boy.
Oh and something that's just cute. He stood from the middle of the room for the first time while waiting for the doctor. Way to go little man!
And just in case you are wondering, he has continued to be his wild self: